Argh! Now *I* can't find it!

OK. A person over at stargate_search was looking for a story. I know I read it.

It was Jacd/Daniel and in the story Jack discovers Daniel can't have an orgasm.

( Spoliers for the story I'm looking for )

I now cannot find this thing *anywhere.* And it's more the not being able to find it than the fic itself that has me going completely bonkers.

HELP ME!!!!

Kind regards,
CK

PS The last time this happened, it was that Elijah Wood/Justin Timberlake thing. Which now I can't find again because rosemending's website isn't working. At least I know who to ask this time.